Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Welcome to the World Ella Marie Boston!




















As much as I wanted labor to happen naturally I still did not want to wait to have our baby girl any longer than December 17th. To have a birthday one week before Christmas is going to be chaotic enough; I certainly didn't want to add to it by maybe having her be born on Christmas.

Friday morning, 6:15am, Nate and I arrive at Riverside Hospital for my scheduled induction. Even though we were 15 minutes late, it didn't seem to matter. We were both more calm this time around because we knew what to expect. By 7am my IV was in and the nurses became to slowly administer the Pitocin. I still found it fun to watch the baby's heart rate and my contractions on the monitor - there is something about seeing the needle go up and down that makes you aniticipate what is really about to happen. After awhile the nurse checked my cervix and I was about 4cms, 80% effaced. Dr Shepard came in our room to break my water around 11am. It was definately uncomfortable, just like a cervix check, however this seemed to last forever. My water was clear and she was very surprised how much water I had. Once my water was broke I immediately felt a bit lighter. Not to my surprise but I guess my body just loves to retain water during my pregnancies. The nurse warned me that after my water broke, the 'cushion' would be gone and my contractions would be a lot more painful. I fully knew what to expect because I remember how bad they felt with Tyler. I still told her I wanted to wait awhile for to put my name in for the epidural because I was not in pain yet. About 15 minutes later, she came back in the room and I was in a whole lot of pain. The contractions were coming every minute or two, were lasting longer, and hurt so bad all I could think about was I felt like throwing up and nothing I could do (includind gripping Nathan's hand) could make me feel better. I gave her the nod to put my name in. By Noon the nurse came in to administer the epidural. It was very uncomfortable being hunched over waiting for the needle in my back while having contractions! UH! Once the epidural was in the nurse told me I wouldn't feel complete relief for 15-30 minutes. For the first 20 I laid on my left side and took a short nap while Nate grabbed some lunch. Around 12:45 the nurse came in to check my cervix. I was 6cms and 80% effaced. She had my lay on my right side and try to take a nap while she went on her lunch break. By this time, Nate was back in the room. It wasn't more than 10 minutes later that a nurse came in to check the monitor and asked me if I felt any pressure. I thought that was a weird question and I told her no and that my nurse was just here and I was only 6cms. She told me the baby's heart rate had dropped and that usually only happens when you are about to give birth. She got out an oxygen mask and asked to me wear it to see if it helped her heart rate. She stood by the monitor watching her heart rate and about 2 minutes later I told her that I thought I felt some pressure. She checked my cervix and in an instant said, Okay you are 10cms and ready to have this baby. She called my nurse and Dr. Shepard and started preparing for me to push. By 1pm Dr. Shepard arrived and I began to push a few minutes after. I think I might have only pushed about 3 or 4 (sets of 3) and she was born at 1:18pm. Baby Girl Boston was TINY and had lots of hair! The nurse laid her on my chest while Nate cut the ambilical cord and smiled for his picture :) I got to cuddle with her for a good 10 minutes - Nate and I both had tears of joy in our eyes. Our baby girl was finally here and she was healthy as could be!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

38 weeks Day 3

*Picture from 37 weeks*

Stats from my LAST doctor appointment!! :) Yippie!!

Dilated: 3cms
Cervix: High Posterior
Heart Rate: 140
Belly Measurement: 36 cms
Weight Gain: 1lb
Total Weight Gain for this pregnancy: 39lbs! (167 lbs)
Total Weight Gain with Tyler: 50lbs (178 lbs)

Okay I know 39lbs isn't anything to cheer about considering the recommended weight gain is 25lbs, but it's 11 less than last time so I'm happy about that.

I've also made a mistake of dying my hair dark to keep it low maintenance over my maternity leave. It looks black and way darker than my natural hair color :( Hope it fades fast.

*Picture does not reflect new hair color*
Getting induced this Friday, December 17th at 6am!!! Last minute name ideas:
Kinsley Elaine or Ella Marie....Hailey is out b/c I want cute nicknames for my baby girl! I also haven't decided if I'm breastfeeding b/c I just want to focus on enjoying time with her and not worry about pumping and being the ONLY one who can feed her. It just seems like less stress to not do it. Plus I still want to have time to focus on Tyler and give him what he needs. Having two kids is already stressing me out and baby girl isn't even born yet.
Also, I've caught Tyler's cold - Thanks Daycare!! Luckily yesterday my OB gave me meds: Zpack to knock it out in case it's bacterial. I'm praying I feel close to 100% for Friday.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Dr Appointment - Week 37 Day 3

Since my last post, I've changed my mind again and now think we'll name this little girl Kinsley. I suppose at this point only the birth certificate will hold the truth!

Blood Pressure:110/66
Strep B - Negative
Dilated: 2cms
Effaced: a bit over 50%
Baby's position: head is very low
Cervix - high posterior
Belly: 35cms (measuring small - she thinks it's b/c her head is so low)

Week 37 Day 4 *might* have lost mucus plug. Strong menstrual cramps and some Braxton Hicks.

Scheduled induction date for Friday December 17th if she is not here yet. Luckily my Dr moved my due date ahead by two days (now Dec 24th) so I can be induced on a Friday instead of the Sunday before Christmas.

What will life be like with 2 kids? How will I have energy to play with Tyler and be up all night feeding?On the flip side, I can't wait to meet my little baby girl!!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

36 week Dr appointment (12/2/10), Ty's 16th Month,Thanksgiving, and COSI

Tyler in his new fire hat courtesy of Chase and Clay...He loves wearing it even though he can't see where he is going! :)

Greg, Clay and Tyler just hanging out


Our FIRST Thanksgiving Turkey!


Tyler sporting camo for Veteran's Day


Family photos







Pregnancy - Update

Today, December 2nd 2010, I had my first cervix exam to check progress. I'm 36 weeks and 5 days. Since my last appointment two 1/2 weeks ago, here are my stats.

Weight Gain: 2lbs (totally impressive for me)
Weight Gain to date: 34lbs
Blood Pressure: 100/60
Baby's Heart Rate: good
Effaced: 50%
Cervix: very soft
Dilated: 1 1/2 cm
Baby's Position: Head down

A few days ago Nate and I decided to finally give her a name. After 16 weeks of debating between Kinsley, Emma, Brielle, Avery, Hailey....we decided on Hailey. At least that has been the constant for the last 5 days :) The middle name will be Elaine, after my mom's first name and my middle name. Tyler and Hailey seem to 'flow' well together...

This little girl is active and I pray she is born healthy and is a good eater and sleeper! We are excited to see what she looks like. Will she have red hair and green eyes or blonde hair and blue eyes like Tyler? Soon we'll find out!

Last week I was up from 10am-2pm with severe lower back aches, stomach cramps and Braxton hicks that we only 2 minutes apart. I knew this wasn't labor but nothing would make it go away. I went to the Dr the next day and they did a 30 minute non stress test to monitor my contractions and the baby. She was doing just fine, moving a lot and I had several contractions during the test. The nurse checked my cervix and said it was high posterior, called my Dr and I was released. Since then I've had a few contractions here and there but nothing like that night.

At this point, I'm ready for the real thing and done being pregnant!

Tyler Update - Month 16

As an update, Tyler's 16th month has been great! He recently moved up to the next classroom in daycare and now sleeps on a cot and walks to the cafeteria. He is rambling gibberish more and more and really understands what we are saying. "Tyler, do you want a banana?" He shakes his head no. "Tyler do you want grapes" huh huha....he laughs and smiles. He doesn't nod his head yes or say yes - but the question game is an easy way to find out what he wants. Once you get it right, he just smiles and laughs. Another fun game he likes to play is in the bathtub is filling his tupperware bowl up with water and then putting it up to his mouth and pretending to drink it. Then he seals his lips shut and smiles. "Tyler, YUCK, spit that out, what is in your mouth?" he LAUGHS and thinks this is so funny. Until recently I actually thought he was putting a good amount of bathwater in his mouth. Last night I watched him even closer and saw that he was pretending to sip the water and making his mouth look full, even though there was nothing in it. Thank goodness!

Also, Tyler has become more attached to his stuffed animal duck in his crib. He cuddles it until he falls asleep and he plays with it when he wakes up and wants to hold him until he gets his sippy cup of water. He is still a good sleeper and will put himself to sleep at night and put himself back to sleep with a binkie if he wakes up in the middle of the night with a bad dream.

An update on his eating habits. Jackie and Ashley gave me some good recommendations. I told them that he loves turkey dogs but I don't want him to eat them all the time. So I went and bought things that look the same. Morning Star Turkey sausage, Tofurkey Dogs, etc. To my surprise he loved them! I still tell him they are hot dogs....

Thanksgiving 2010

Thanksgiving this year for us was very different. We didn't go out of town, instead we decided to have family over for a Holiday Lunch on Black Friday. So on Thanksgiving we went to Mimi's Cafe for a Turkey lunch then put Ty to bed. While he slept we decorated the tree. This is my favorite time of the year because Christmas trees are so magical for little kids. We immediately set boundaries when Tyler saw the tree - it's a no touching zone. However, every morning when he wakes up he runs over the tree and whines until he turn on the lights. Once the lights are on he stares at the tree, carefully looks at the bulbs and hanging decorations and then runs around the living room happy! I need to video this because it's so darn cute!

On Black Friday we had a great Holiday lunch. Greg, Anita and the boys came down from Canton, my Mom, Rob and Grandpa came down from Akron, James, Kim and the kids came up from Trenton and Bridget, Micah and the kids came over from Micah's family's house in Worthington. Overall we had about 19 people at our house! Everyone brought a dish while Nate and I were responsible for the mashed potatoes and turkey. Our first Turkey ever! What a debacle. Measure 1 TBS of flour and prep the turkey bag....shoot! I don't have a TBS measurer. Stick the meat thermometer in the turkey's inner thigh, not touching a bone...how hard could that be? Nate and I couldn't determine the exact spot of the inner thigh. Cut six slits in the oven bag. We could do that. Put turkey in the bag, we did that....but wait, the turkey is upside down. Nate proceeds to cut more slots on the other side of the bag. The instructions said 6, not 12...we need a new bag and have to start over. We followed the instructions and let the turkey cook for about 3.5 hours - the thermometer never worked, but the turkey turned out great! Success!
On the other hand, we peeled 3 bags of potatoes, would this be enough? Apparently. We had SOO many left over potatoes we have been eating them for a week and they are still not gone!
The boys enjoyed playing corn hole and football outside - even though it was only 30 degrees! The kids opened their Christmas gifts and everyone had a great time.

COSI


The weekend before Thanksgiving we thought it would be fun to take Tyler to the Little Kids Space at COSI. Nate had never been and I had not been since 4th grade. To have the #1 Science center in the US, only 20 minutes from our house is pretty cool. We stayed about 2 hours and Ty had a BLAST running around exploring everything. It was great for Nate and I because everything is kid safe, so we didn't have to worry about anything! We definitely want to get a family pass once Hailey is old enough to run around. For 1 year of unlimited admission and free parking, it's only $99. Just like the Columbus Zoo - what a great deal!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Tyler 15 month recap, Halloween and 33 weeks Prego today (11/8/10)

Passed out after The Gardner School Halloween Party! (Pictures below) Chewing on the plastic Put Put Golf Set

Dancing in the dark with disco lights. Tyler LOVES music!

Signing Please....he wants to hold the Halloween Candy Basket

Fun in the ball pit

More fun in the Tent!
Staning on top of the school cots! Superman is deep in thought...
Tyler's Friend Harry is dressed as the devil....he is attempting to scare Superman

Scarey Red Jellow with Eyeballs

Tyler LOVED this pumpkin Sweatshirt

VILLAGE AT ALUM CREEK HALLOWEEN NIGHT TRICK OR TREAT (Pictures Below)

Tyler and Peyton in her wagon. Superman and Supergirl!

Warming up inside the house!

Getting ready to Trick or Treat. First Stop, Tommy & Kim's. Next Stop, back to our house to change Tyler's poopy diaper.

Ty loved feeding the pumpkin candy!

Well, month 15 is about over and every month I look back and think, WOW - he grew up soo much this month! Ty usually loves to try any new word I ask. My current favorite is when I ask him to open the drain in the tub, he still thinks I’m saying train, makes the choo choo motion with his arm and then I say Tyler, say Open and he say Bub-BOH, as if that's even close! It's so cute though because now that is his made up word for open. Just like I still can't get him to say 'All Done' the right way. He does the sign language for it and say, Day-Doh! Again, not even close but so darn cute. Oh and the other favorite is Radio...Ty's version 'Ari Ari -O'. Going outside is a favorite and he loves to run to the door and say 'Aut-IDE'....pretty close! He then puts out his right arm so I can put his coat on. Recently when I take off his shoes, coat or hat he cries uncontrollably for up to 10 minutes! My mom thinks it's not b/c he loves his coat but because he associates it with the fun of being able to run around outside!

Halloween weekend was a blast! Tyler LOVED running around his daycare visiting the classrooms and seeing all the other kids. His class had tents and ball pits (BIG HIT), he loved climbing and trying to jump up and down on the cots in the next classroom, chewing on the plastic golf set in the 2 yr old room and dancing in the dark with disco lights in the preschool room! He looked adorable with his superman costume on!!! Trick or Treat in our new neighborhood was a success! Even though it was SUPER cold Ty and I headed out at 6pm to Tommy and Kim's as our first house. Turns out Tyler pooped his diaper and we had to head back home to change. Nathan took Tyler to 5 more houses before coming home - it was very cold outside!! I was a giant magic 8 ball and on the back of my shirt it said, 'It's a Girl', Nathan wore his Marine gear and we sat outside on the porch and passed out over 10 bags of candy! TONS of kids - all ages!! Tyler Loved putting candy inside of the carved pumpkin's face that was sitting outside on our porch. He enjoyed watching all the kids come and go and then playing with the candy once we got inside the house. No candy for Ty this year, we ended up re-gifting it all and he ended up just eating some Teddy Grahams and Animal Cookies courtesy of Tommy and Kim!

This month I also took time off work to visit Jen Victor at Case Elementary and Sarah Cappel (Andrea Grimm's friend) at Upper Arlington. Both classes were mod-severe special ed and really completely different experiences b/c of the difference in money between the two school districts. Looking into next year, I would like to pursue teaching; however - I'm uncertain of two things. Number One - how will I take classes, be a wife and mother of two? Number Two: Do I really want to pay back up to $40k in additional student loans when I still have roughly $19k left from OSU and Capital?? Uhh, the stress of decisions!!

Baby #2 Update Dear Baby #2, why do I not have a name picked out for you yet?

This is driving me crazy. I would have NEVER imagined that I would not be able to decide between so many names!

Kinsley - does the N make it sound too manly? Kinsey is a cute nickname though.
Hayley - Love the name, BUT why are there no nicknames for Hayley??? Hay, HayHay - YUCK! Kayleigh - my step niece is named Kayleigh. Do we really care???
Kylie - we both love this name but it pretty much says KYLE
Avery - I love this name but apparently there are lots of boys named Avery. I don't like that!

I hate to mutter these words but right now I’ve gained 26lbs. Wow and Oh well. Yes I thoroughly enjoyed my Halloween Candy, indulging in pasta and putting cheese on everything! Soon I'll be back to my old healthy ways and wonder why I ever let myself eat this stuff. Baby Girl Boston is definitely a mover! She moves around WAY more than Tyler ever did and she is certainly sitting lower as I can feel her fingers and movements right around my pelvic bone. Recently I’ve been getting eye aches and headaches and I'm soo tired sometimes I don't think I can keep my eyes open. Also, I’m finding it harder to think straight as my brain feels like it is turning to mush! Added stressors include not knowing if I am returning to work and if Nathan is taking his new job proposal.....so many things to be decided in the next couple of weeks!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Great Grandpa Poppa Turns 90! Ty's 15 month update. Baby #2 at 31 weeks




My baby is quickly becoming a little boy! Every day is a new word. Radio and Outside are still favorites but he is trying to say most words I ask him to say. Sometime he only gets the amount of syllables right but the letters are not even close :) I still think it's super cute and always tell him, "GOOD Try".

At Ty's Dr appointment (10/20/10), he got first round of the Hep A and the Flu vaccine. I figured I might as well since the little guy is in daycare.

Weight 23lbs 9oz (25-50% percentile) WOW has his weight gain slowed down!! This is a testament to the fact that Tyler cannot sit still for a second!!!

Height: 33 inches (95% percentile) He is getting tall and could be as tall as his Uncle Jason....

Head Circumference: 49.6cm (90% percentile)

We are diligently working on having Tyler ALWAYS say please and try to say a word to tell us what he wants. One day this will catch on the and whining will disappear.

We also celebrated your Great Grandpa Poppa's 90th birthday this past weekend in Akron. Grandpa, Poppa & Leona, Grandpa Rob & Grandmommy, and Uncle Jason all met at Olive Garden for the celebration.

BABY #2
Hi little girl. We still do not have a name for you :( Hayley, Hailey or Kinsley?) Mommy cannot make up her mind? I asked you to kick me if you liked either but nothing.....I guess that means I get to decide. :)

So far I'm 31 weeks and have gained 26lbs. Thankfully I have not been swollen at all but I have been super tired and hungry all the time!

I keep giving you pep-talks that you really should make your début once you are full term! The further away from Christmas we can make your birthday, the happier you'll be long term. Right now the hospital will not induce me until one week before your due date - so we are looking at December 20th as a potential birthday if you don’t' appear before then.

This past weekend your daddy got sick of my nagging and finished painting the nursery, put together your crib and carried the dresser up to your room. Things are starting to come together and all will be ready for your arrival very soon.

We can't wait to meet you!


Monday, October 11, 2010

14 Month Picture Recap. Tons of Fall Fun!

Eating Yogurt by yourself can be messy!
SO PROUD to eat Yogurt all by himself! :)

He preferred picking up rocks instead of picking a pumpkin

PUMPKINPALOOZA 2010. Tyler LOVED this bunny!!

Jill, Claire and Maddy LOVE Mr. Tyler!

TYLER DANCING AT THE FEST

FAMILY PHOTO - BARN N BUNK (27 Weeks Prego)

BARN N BUNK FEST WITH TYLER'S COUSINS (Luke, Cara, Laney, Craig, & Ty)

TRENTON BARN N BUNK FALL FEST 2010

TYLER AT MAMAW AND PAPAW'S...SNEAKING UP ON THE DOGS

LEBANON APPLEFEST 2010

14 Month Recap

For starters, let's not forgot baby #2. At the end of Ty's 14th month I had my 28 week Dr appt and everything is going well. Feet aren't swollen, acid reflux is random and my iron count is a bit low at 10.2, so I'm now taking iron pills in addition to my prenatals. I can tell she is growing fast because I'm able to see her movements just by watching my stomach.

Tyler had a giant breakthrough this month.....one day out of the blue he stopped being a picky eater and started to try new foods!! This is huge! On Oct 2nd at the Bartula's house Jackie fed him Macaroni and Cheese and he actually ate it by the handful. After this miraculous event he suddenly started trying all food at daycare. He NEVER would eat the main entree for lunch and now he is trying everything and eating most things. Wow does this make my life less stressful and more fun! I hope this continues.

Ty has also made new friends in the neighborhood. Our neighbors, Claire (10 yrs), Jill (10 yrs), and Maddy (7 yrs) come over once or twice a day asking.... "Can Tyler come out and play?". He loves playing on their massive swing set, and this weekend we played with bubbles and water toys. The girls are great with Tyler and will certainly make wonderful babysitters when they are a bit older. For now, they are a tad overwhelming and fight for Ty's attention. Usually he gets overwhelmed by them but still likes to run around in the backyard and play.

Last week I picked Tyler up from Daycare and he was playing with bubbles. No surprise there, but then he said the word Bubbles and I was shocked. I had NO idea he could say bubbles until the teacher said, oh he says that all the time! Great - what other words does my little man say that I have no idea about!?!?!?

On the not so exciting front, Tyler also likes to Whine...EHHHHHHHHHH!! Worst noise in the world! Also, diaper changing and putting on clothes is a giant fight. He refuses to lay on his back to get his diaper changed and instantly flips. Once he starts pull ups it'll be so much easier but until then we have our work cut out for us.

In summary, Tyler is still the sweetest little boy! He is very sensitive if you yell at him and say NO. He is getting very good at giving out kisses and is starting to get shy around meeting new people. He is down to one nap a day and for the first time EVER, slept 12 hours this past Saturday!! I love you baby Tyler, you make our lives complete!!!

Friday, September 24, 2010

Day Doh, SSSSS, bahhh

Tyler is working on talking! 14 1/2 months and his understanding / vocabulary is growing!

I love saying, "Tyler, can you say ____?". When I ask him this question he looks at me with an intense look as if he is thinking; mommy I know you are asking me to say something but I'm not sure yet.

After I ask him to say something he either things about it and will then try OR he will get an ornery grin on his face and laugh. :)

Words Tyler has said and spelled how he says them....
· Muma
· Dad, Dada
· Eye
· ba (bye)
· doh (dog)
· sssss (means Cat or Stryker)
· Day Doh, Day Dohhh (favorite happy phrase)

Ty knows what the following things are:
· Train (choo choo motion with arm)
· Car
· Truck
· Head
· Ear
· Teeth
· Nose
· Eyes
· Pee Pee
· Belly Button
· please (LOVES to sign please for EVERYTHING he wants to touch)
· More (love to sign more)
· Hungry (loves to sign hungry and go to his highchair)
· Pumpkin
· Lights
· Bath
· He knows the Letter "T". It's a bath time toy.
· All Done (he loves to sign All done and usually says, Day doh, day doh). One time he actually said "ahh Dun"
· Tent
· Blanket
· Books
· Binkie
· Sippy
· Dance (loves to dance when he hears the word!)
· Basketball
· Slide
· Swing